As
a man I sometimes need to be reminded that a good relationship depends on
quality communication. This is true if you are talking about a relationship
with your wife, your children, your friends or co-workers, and most importantly
God. I recently read a quote that said, “If you feel far away from God, guess
who moved?” How profound is that? So how do we become closer to Him? Well it is
easy, as I said above a good relationship requires quality communication. The
Bible tells us how to communicate with God so it is no secret. The prayer of a righteous
person is powerful and effective. John 5:16b
So how should we chat with the Big Guy?
Well there are many ways suggested and if you are one of those people who need
it broken down in a structured fashion you have to find one that works for you.
I recommend looking at something like the A.C.T.S. method. It is simple really,
start with A, start by adoring your
Daddy, love Him, worship Him, and remember He created all, thus making us His
treasure. God longs for us to love Him like He loves us. Next go on to C, confess to Him. God knows our sins,
even before we commit them, He does not love us less but He does want us to own
up to them and repent from them. This draws us closer to Him. The first part of
the above bible verse suggests we confess our sins to others and pray for each
other, if this is too hard at the moment start with Him. Now move on to T, thank Him. For some people this is
easier than other because they see their blessings all around them. Again God
created us; He breathed His breath into us. He gave us every sunrise and sunset,
He raised every mountain and filled every stream, and He loves us with
unconditional love and unfailing grace. That is something to be thankful for. Finally
is the S, supplication, asking God to
fulfill our needs and the needs of others. As I said there are many ways to
structure your daily prayer life, this is just one example.
I like to have conversations with Him. I
talk, He listens, I talk, He answers, and I usually miss it. This is because I
often think prayer is about me. God answers every prayer and He does it in a
few ways. The one everyone wants, “Yes, I think you are ready for this.” The
one everyone is afraid of, “No, I know this is not good for you.” The one that
everyone believes God just is not listening, “Wait, I have something so much
better for you.” Finally He answers prayers sternly, reminding us that His
grace is enough for us. Jesus said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is
made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my
weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 2 Corinthians 12:9
Communication is the key to any successful
relationship. God is the only one who gives us an infallible book on how to do
it. If you have questions, read the Word of God, the answers are there within
its living pages. I pray that everyone who reads this will be blessed in their day,
know that Jesus died just for them, understand that God’s love is prefect and
unfailing, and that they too can find peace in prayer to our Savior. But thanks be to God! He gives us the
victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.1 Corinthians 15:57
Rejoice always, pray
continually, give thanks
in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians
5:16-18