Thursday, May 23, 2013

Little Moments


Have you ever had one of those moments where time stood still and all was right in the world?

 I imagine this is how the father felt when his estranged son returned after leaving with his inheritance. I think one of the biggest obstacles in today’s world is that we have so many worries about stuff that we forget to stop and see those moments as the gifts from God that they truly are. This is less of a devotional today and more of a challenge. I want to challenge you to find a little notebook, tuck it and a pen somewhere on your person, be it purse or pocket and start recording the moments. As a society we get so caught up in what we have, what we want, and what we think we need that we miss what is already there.

As I look back on the past 5 months of this year a lot has happened, many changes occurred, some reducing stress and some adding to exponentially. I can see those moments though and I wish I would have appreciated them more when they happened. Moments like bringing in the New Year with family and friends from church, and singing like a rock star on Rock band that night. Moments like celebrating Holly’s birthday at my mom’s home with a knitting cake and making faces with my favorite little Kenley, I believe that night Kenley literally poked the bear, too cute. Moments like walking around our Nation’s capital with Jordan placing a gnome in places he probably shouldn’t have been for picture opts. Holding my wife’s hand as we watched the soldier at the tomb of the unknown do his march, sitting next to the drunk guy in Imax and watching a surfing movie, and seeing my boys excited about every exhibit and museum we went to because their thirst for knowledge is amazing. High school dances and fancy dresses and suits were also a highlight. Moments when I realize my children are growing into young adults and I have to like the father mentioned above start letting them take some responsibility for their own actions. All the little moments in April that just jump out such as painting for a large group of young people as we discussed the importance of rest, our friend Mary scaring another friend at Tracy’s birthday party, becoming a member of the American Association of Christian counselors, and a great night with my friends at a Scallywag event. Moments like when our oldest boy took first, by a lot, in his heat of hurdles, when Jordan beat Nick in the mile because that was his goal, and Sayje landing on her head catching a high fly ball in softball. Watching Joey play with his friend Peter and not getting any calls about them being in trouble, and one of my favorite moments is when Maddy comes home from long weekends at her dad’s and we cuddle up on the couch, her, Holly, and I and catch up on River Monsters.

So your challenge is to simply keep track of your moments, thank those who were part of them, thank God for allowing them to happen, and appreciate what you have instead of what you think you need. 


Sunday, May 5, 2013

Stepping Stones


Image walking across a stream, stepping from rock to rock as you firmly plant your foot to ensure you are on solid ground. Even when you have a precisely planned out root there are times when you hit a rock that is not as secure as the others or it is just slippery. When you step to this rock you fall, become wet, embarrassed, and maybe even mad. Is it the rocks fault you fell?

As my children get older I am finding more slippery and loose stones. I did not grow up with a strong father in my early life. I was not a strong father in my children’s early life either. Now I have a stronger faith in my Daddy, God, but at times I still step onto the rocks that are not firmly planted. When I do, I stubble and it can be an ugly site. Other times I attempt to move the rocks myself so I can get across and lead my family across, even though I may make it one of them may slip. This was not God’s intent but my self-will run riot. Sometimes God allows our loved ones to fall so we can help them up. Again, at this I sometimes fail. It is God’s intent that we follow His path no matter how difficult because He knows the destination is worth it.

I left my home today feeling like I had failed as a father. Through careful prayer and a conversation, probably long overdue with God, I see that I only fail if I don’t help my struggling child up off the rocks. I know that I did not handle the fall well but I can finish the day with a bigger Daddy in charge. Cleaning up the wounds won’t be easy and will take time to heal for everyone but it will happen because our God is a great healer, listener, captive audience, and best of all, the solid stone for us to stand upon, our Daddy.

And One is God The Father of all, and over all, and with all and in us all. Ephesians 4:6